The Influence Of Self-Enchanting

Updated: Sep 6

“Stand out from the crowd, be yourself.” - Stephen Richards


The word "Self-Enchanting" is self-explanatory but let’s go through the details;

"Self" stands for the person's fundamental that distinguishes one person from other while "Enchanting" is related to your improving and appealing nature. Self-enhancement is the improvement of one's knowledge, status, or character by their own efforts. It's the quest to make ourselves better in any and every facet of life.


Content:

  1. From where to start?

  2. Practical approaches to improve yourself

  3. Self enchanting trends during lock-down.

  4. How it changes your life?

From where to start?

It always starts with self-awareness and the ability to transform your habits is by your willingness. There are very basic rules that needs to be followed, when you really want to start the self-enhancing process:

  • Stop lying to yourselves:

If you are serious to do something for your own goodness, then make a first habit of accepting the truth and never lie to yourself. Eventually, you will feel the call of self awareness and automatically want to initiate the process. Come out of your comfort zone and gradually you will be succeeded.

  • Focus on the goals:

When you start focusing on your goals rather than setting expectations, you will automatically feel the beat. Being a human nature, we always want everything get done easily and readily but it’s not possible in case of your own. You have to start with your own mind set to not fall down. You have to judge those things which are problematic in getting things done.


“If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always be where you’ve always been.” - T.D. Jakes

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Practical approaches to improve yourself:

For sure, there is always something about us that needs to be improved. Our potential is immeasurable, so it’s difficult to arrive at a point of no development. Top 5 ways to improve yourself:

  • Read a book everyday or rather read even a single page everyday:

When you’re reading a book every day, you will feed your brain with more and more knowledge. Reading is an ultimate or best way to deep dive into the topic or any discussion.

  • Go for a new hobby:

Start pushing yourself beyond your limits. By gaining new useful knowledge, you will expect to extend yourself in various viewpoints regardless of whether physically, mentally or emotionally. Go for some productive hobbies that will make you smarter and happier. You have your to-do-list always ready with you.

  • Conquer your fear:

All of us have fears. Fear of making wrong decision, fear of speaking in front of audience, fear of losing things etc. Fears will come together and try to pull us back from the path of development. You should ask Why? And try to find out solutions. Go back through your life and remember all the occasions that this fear was there but no more and start believing yourself.

  • Go for meditation and physical exercise:

A better start lead to better future. Now a days, body dishonoring is much popular topic in every area. So, make a habit of get up early in the morning and go for a fresh air. Meditation plays a vital role in everyone’s life; as it’s a stress reliever and boost you mentally.

  • Accept the flaws:

Everyone has flaws. Most important is how to admit, acknowledge and plan your of action. Starting working on your flaws today. Remind yourself that it’s OK not to be perfect but to be real.

“Keep watering yourself, you are growing“ -E.Russell

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Self-enchanting trends during lock-down:

  • Exercise on a daily basis within home :

Although, year 2020 has huge emphasis on everyone’s life but it’s quite interesting to know that people make a trend of doing exercise at their personal space. They are getting plenty of time to make a daily schedule and plan accordingly. There is a latest trend of being fit from fat and fab from fit during the entire lock-down and the best thing is its free of cost or zero investment. Without even worrying of gym membership fee. Practice yoga to enchant yourself is the best and trending these days.

  • Turn you home into promised land:

In order to truly focus on self-care, you need to have a space to retreat. That’s why focusing at home improvement can be one of the best inadvertent self growth strategies. The stats of mind is not constant, so go make some changes in your home, in your recreational room so that mind is satisfied.

  • Setting digital boundaries:

In this modern age, it’s essential to establish digital boundaries in order to stay happy and healthy. Perhaps that’s why one of the greatest self improvement trends of 2020 is focusing on setting digital boundaries. Whether that’s a limit on screen time or just focusing on more activities outside of the virtual scope, limiting your electronic use can be great for self-growth.


“Happiness is a direction, not a place” - Sydney J. Harris

How it changes your life :

With the goal to change your life, you need to be ready and be prepared to accept that change. That change should be positive. Self-awareness or self-improvement is a key to success. Development in yourself drives you to take advantage of new opportunities, new options open up the doors, so be prepared always. You should simply concentrate on personal growth—start by perusing self-awareness articles, books, web journals—and execute the things you learn in your own life.


Fearlessness is the beginning stage; you're developing that mentality, that conviction which will protect you from others. Focus on your primary area i.e. improve in your activity, your business or your connections. The mindset, belief comes when you growl. You need to continually work on improvement and have the attention to recognize what should be done to do it.

"Everything comes to pass, nothing comes to stay" - Matthew Flickstein


Finding your approach to charm may be an exciting task. Believe that your ability to attention has never been lost. The way to wonder is to be welcoming new opportunities no matter what’s the situation.

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